Valentine’s Day, a day of red roses, heart-shaped chocolates and romantic gestures. While some embrace the celebration wholeheartedly, others argue that it’s overrated. The truth? It depends on how you approach it. 

Many critics of Valentine’s Day believe it has become overly commercialized. With stores displaying Valentine’s merchandise as early as January, it’s easy to feel like the holiday is just an excuse for businesses to profit. The focus on expensive gifts, lavish dinners and extravagant gestures can overshadow the genuine expression of love. For couples, this societal pressure to “go big or go home” can create unnecessary stress. Meanwhile, for those who are single, the day can amplify feelings of loneliness, as if love is something that must be performed or showcased to be valid. 

However, does this mean Valentine’s Day is overrated? Not necessarily. Beneath the commercial surface, the holiday highlights something truly meaningful: love. Love is an essential part of life. 

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about breaking the bank or meeting societal expectations. It’s an opportunity to reflect on and celebrate love in all its forms—romantic, platonic, familial and even self-love. For couples, it’s a chance to prioritize each other amidst busy schedules. For friends and family, it can be a moment to remind one another how much they matter. For individuals, it’s a perfect time to practice self-care and appreciate one’s own worth. 

The key to enjoying Valentine’s Day is to redefine it. Skip the pressure to spend excessively. Instead, focus on heartfelt gestures, whether it’s a handwritten note, a small act of kindness or simply spending quality time with loved ones. At its core, Valentine’s Day is about cherishing connection—and that’s far from overrated. 

So, is Valentine’s Day overhyped? Maybe. But overrated? Not if you celebrate it in a way that’s meaningful to you. Love, after all, is always worth celebrating.